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Post by Rainey on Jan 18, 2016 6:48:27 GMT
Hi, I've been having a time with inappropriate tears when i find myself in a less than desirable position at work or our in public. And I am quick to be overcome with fear when "bad" things happen. Its been a year and a half since Dan passed away and its getting worse.
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Post by Vanessa on Feb 1, 2016 11:07:20 GMT
I can relate. I just left my house of 27 years on January 3rd. I will do fine then I will smell or see something familiar and just bust out crying. I don't know about you but at times it literally feels like my heart is breaking
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Post by Vanessa correction of post on Feb 1, 2016 11:09:51 GMT
I can relate. I just lost my spouse of 27 years on January 3rd. I will do fine then I will smell or see something familiar and just bust out crying. I don't know about you but at times it literally feels like my heart is breaking |
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Post by Gerry on Feb 29, 2016 5:13:11 GMT
I can relate. My husband passed away January 16, 2016 and I stay home because I never know when I am going to burst into tears in public. It is embarrassing and I avoid going to dinner with family when asked and just stay in the house other than going to work which I have also shortened my work week due to this feeling of sadness and anxiety.
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Post by Day by day on Mar 18, 2016 5:58:04 GMT
HI I just lost my husband of 25years on Jan 13/2016. I am passed the shock and onto the sad headache feelings. Triggers happen all the time. I am starting a new job and am scared because everything has changed in my life. I'm doing my best for the kids, some days I wish I was lost at sea just to get away from this overwhelming feeling.
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Post by Jo on May 8, 2016 1:42:44 GMT
It's been 2 weeks since I lost my beloved partner. He was only 49. I just can't stop crying and it's painful crying too. A deep set agony that hurts from my core. I am so distressed that I won't ever see him again and that everything that I have come to know as safe and secure has been whipped away from me!  ? |
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Post by kangels on May 9, 2016 4:24:02 GMT
HI I just lost my husband of 25years on Jan 13/2016. I am passed the shock and onto the sad headache feelings. Triggers happen all the time. I am starting a new job and am scared because everything has changed in my life. I'm doing my best for the kids, some days I wish I was lost at sea just to get away from this overwhelming feeling. |
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Post by tchess32 on Jun 20, 2016 4:40:14 GMT
Traumatized is the word i use to describe what I'm feeling....so many different emotions though it's hard to find one word to describe it....lost, lonely, scared, numb, chaotic, angry, hurt, pain, desperate, depressed, sad just to name a few....how do we get through this, how do we go on without them?? I really don't know....we struggle I guess and pray we grow stronger so we can endure the struggle for the rest of our lives...it's all seems very grim i know....day by day....
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Post by toms on Jul 17, 2016 1:08:21 GMT
I don't know if there is inappropriate crying. I lost my wife of 45 years on April 4 and I can feels those tears at anytime is am someplace we used to go that was special or hear a song we loved, or am in church, or just look at the sunrise and see the flowers in the garden. It has gotten better, but if I tear up somewhere and people ask why, I simply tell them about Mary and how much I miss her. I don't think that is at all inappropriate.
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Post by Helen on May 3, 2018 7:54:02 GMT
It's been 2 weeks since I lost my beloved partner. He was only 49. I just can't stop crying and it's painful crying too. A deep set agony that hurts from my core. I am so distressed that I won't ever see him again and that everything that I have come to know as safe and secure has been whipped away from me! ? Hi I lost my partner of 26 years 4 weeks ago. I completely understand the physical pain you’re going through. It hurts so much doesn’t it? Shawn was 51 and died suddenly. I can’t imagine the rest of my life without him. I hope you have the support of family. Distraction helps. I believe He is all around me in nature. I also talk to him a lot. That helps. |
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