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Post by loube57 on Dec 21, 2020 18:49:54 GMT
My wife and soulmate my best friend for 28 years is gone and I can’t stop grieving over it. She died 10 feet away from me in our dining room while I was in the kitchen doing dishes to surprise her she knocked over the dining room chair and fell on the floor and because I am hearing impaired I didn’t hear her.I didn’t have my hearing devices in at the time and I can’t stop thinking that if I heard her she would be here today! She could have been there for a hour? She was gone when I found her! I’m so heartbroken and it’s not supposed to be this way, she was healthy and full of life and I am the opposite in poor health and struggling to live. The holidays are very tuff as they are her favorite time of the year and she decorated our house like the geico commercial every year! This year nothing it’s to painful and I can’t deal with life without her! I miss you Debbie more than you can ever imagine and I’m so sorry I didn’t hear you fall and save you sweetheart
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Post by bemojoe on Dec 23, 2020 21:59:16 GMT
Forgive yourself, friend. I had to make the decision to ‘pull the plug’ for my wife and wondering if I did the right thing. My pastor said if it had been God’s will for her to live, it wouldn’t have mattered what anyone did. It was her time. She struggled many years with medical difficulties (amputated leg, no hips, wheelchair-bound, bladder and colon problems, etal). As a believer, I know that she is secure, pain-free, no sorrows and I will see her again and enjoy our friendship once more.
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