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Post by happilymarried91297 on Jan 12, 2020 19:04:25 GMT
On November19,2017 my wife passed away due to battle with diabetes and also by taking the ivokanna medicine that caused her to be an amputee. She lost 2 pinky tied and a leg below the knee and still didn't make her lose her faith in God. Guilt has taken over my life as I went to work the night before she passed away and came home to find her dead.
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Post by lori on Jun 7, 2020 4:37:13 GMT
On November19,2017 my wife passed away due to battle with diabetes and also by taking the ivokanna medicine that caused her to be an amputee. She lost 2 pinky tied and a leg below the knee and still didn't make her lose her faith in God. Guilt has taken over my life as I went to work the night before she passed away and came home to find her dead. |
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Post by Dalisuan on Jun 17, 2020 22:55:34 GMT
so sorry to hear of this. I, too, am fresh to mourning my spouse...togetherfor 20 years and married for 10...he died a little over a month ago after battling prostate and bone cancer with renal failure. It was just us..And now, it's only me. The quiet in my home, the empty days and the tearful nights are so very very difficult..life is meaningless right now..just hours that tick away...sigh..how do you do this?? On November19,2017 my wife passed away due to battle with diabetes and also by taking the ivokanna medicine that caused her to be an amputee. She lost 2 pinky tied and a leg below the knee and still didn't make her lose her faith in God. Guilt has taken over my life as I went to work the night before she passed away and came home to find her dead. |
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Post by Dalisuan on Jun 17, 2020 23:12:15 GMT
to Loss of Spouse..I hear you. The guilt, though misplaced, must feel very real. But I believe you loved your spouse very much and, well, we are only human and are not perfect. we can't see the future and we can't undo or re-do the past. Please, forgive yourself for not knowing everything..you were being responsible in your own way.
I recall that on the day my husband died that I had spent a full day at his bedside in hospice. He was in a morphine sleep, having refused to eat or drink for days. His wish was no extreme measures and the doctors were considering permanent dialysis and more surgery. He did not want that.. I was at his bedside until early evening then I went home. I took a late bath and listened to a few of his favorite songs..I was in the tub from 10:00 till 11:00..Then I got the call.. my honey passed away ay 9:57..I felt numb..guilty..how dare I take a hot bath as he lay dying. I should have stayed with him longer, all night..i should have been there holding his hand as he took his last breath...but how was I to know it would be the last? I could not know. I could only do what I did.
I can't change that..I can only accept.
I wish the same for you.
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Post by loube57 on Dec 21, 2020 18:28:16 GMT
so sorry to hear of this. I, too, am fresh to mourning my spouse...togetherfor 20 years and married for 10...he died a little over a month ago after battling prostate and bone cancer with renal failure. It was just us..And now, it's only me. The quiet in my home, the empty days and the tearful nights are so very very difficult..life is meaningless right now..just hours that tick away...sigh..how do you do this?? |
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Post by bemojoe on Dec 23, 2020 21:48:46 GMT
I’m sorry for your loss. I recently lost my beautiful, spirited wife of 25 years. I hurt. Grieving is tiring but needs to be done.
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